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heretic13
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Backstabbers

April 16, 2008

I had a talk today with my daughter about one of her friends stabbing her in the back over a boy. I explained that's there's nothing worse than a backstabber, cuz they'll only do stuff behind your back since they don't have the balls to confront you face to face. Furthermore I explained that the boy in question was an idiot for believing the backstabber without verifying anythin he had been told. Between jealousy and lies, she lost nothing but a person whom she thought was a friend, but in the end turned out to be a worthless piece of crap. I felt bad for her but explained the world is full of people like this, and the best thing to do is ignore them since they aren't worth the air they breathe. She now understands why me and her mother tell her to always confront a person face to face whenever something is in question or doubt. Lies ruin this world faster than anything else!

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  • Photo of Jalinrix Jalinrix
    Jalinrix
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    Posted 4 years ago by Jalinrix

    Yep!! It's a very hard lesson to learn in life. But it's one of those you either learn it early are you in for a world of hurt. It's really hard to try to explain this kind of stuff to our kids, but if we don't we will have a front row seat in seeing our child hurt and sometimes destroyed. Which is so heartbreaking for any parent! I'm glad you had the good thought to sit her down and tell it to her straight. It's hard but it's a part of growing up and our job as a parent!!

    Well done David!!

    huggles

  • Photo of blazer084 blazer084
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    Posted 4 years ago by blazer084

    Man that crap sux!!! I hope all turns out for the best. And what is bad is you would think the older some people get they would grow up and stop that stuff,to bad some stay childish and live their lives like that all the time.It's a good thing she has you to help her with the high school crap,cuz then she will know she can always turn to you for advice as she gets older.Take care hun.