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No good deed goes unpunished

November 19, 2009

I reconnected with a woman that left my life 28 years ago.

This last weekend i met an old exgirlfreind at our local fleamarket, she was there with her 19 year old daughter. she told me she was divorced and that leaveing me for money 28 years ago was one of her worst decisions. she then gave me her number and told me to give her a call.

i did and we went out on monday, after dinner i took her for a bike ride up the coast, to the place we originally met almost 30 years ago. she could not beleive i remembered. afterwards we went to her place listened to several metal albums. we were together the next night also.

then she got put on double shifts 8am- midnight, also her daughter left for colorado to go skiing. so today i went to her house while she was at work and cleaned up her house and did her dishes, i thought i was being nice.

she got off early today, and i got one hell of a call. she accused me of trying to get something out of her by cleaning up her place. i told her that i was just trying to be nice and that i wasn't trying to get anything out of her. to which she said "bullshit noone is that nice for no reason, your a fucking liar" then she hung up.

Did I do something wrong here? 13666

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  • Photo of cupcake13 cupcake13
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    Posted 2 years ago by cupcake13

    she needs to open her eyes and see that you were just trying to be nice.

  • Photo of Kit_Kat Kit_Kat
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    Posted 2 years ago by Kit_Kat

    Well Not Really; But I mean You could have asked to go to her house and clean. us girls like our privacy; well no offense doesnt seem like she really misses you like she reffered; lol no worries time goes by. what a bitch. & how sweet of you to do something as nice as you did. Her Loss!

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    Posted 2 years ago by posse

    No way!You did nothing wrong!!!I can tell you re a nice man by helping her with her with the housework !I reckoned she was stressed and u know ,some people can be moody !Just leave her alone for some times ,and let her call you herself coz if she s acting this way .There s no way whatever u say will get into her head.Let her cool down first.After that,you ll explain once more & if she s still so adamant about her wrong assumption of you.Then,dun waste your time any further!If she really likes you and want to be with u again ,she oughn't do that .If im about your age,and im single ,i wont let that chance of meeting u to be blown away ;)

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    Posted 2 years ago by tigress3396

    I am sorry to say but some women are like that. They have control issues and can not handle someone else taking the reins. You are such a nice guy, I am sorry she treated you that way. Keep your head up. Maybe she will come around. Stay sic.

  • Photo of VermilionButterfly VermilionButterfly
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    Posted 2 years ago (changed 2 years ago) by VermilionButterfly

    All I have to say to her is open up your eyes and see what's in front of you. You just had a good man with good intentions come back into your life, a man that knows how to forgive and forget but you just push him away again? For a second time. It disgusts me to read this, because you're such a good guy. It sickens me.

  • Photo of VermilionButterfly VermilionButterfly
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    Posted 2 years ago by VermilionButterfly

    It seems as though the people in this world can't see the good in anyone. Now and again we sit here wondering, "What did I do wrong?" when in reality you did nothing wrong. And this right here is one of those cases. It's getting harder and harder to be a nice person nowadays in a world full of so much hate and negativity. Sweet, kind-hearted people like you everyday are being wrongfully accused and not heard out all the way. It's a shame that a good man like you had to go through some bull shit like that. She should be ashamed of herself.

  • Photo of Number13 Number13
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    Posted 2 years ago by Number13

    that's how it works, you can be as kind and nice as you want, but people are just going to keep pointing fingers and trying to get benefits for themselves... but hey people like us we're a dying breed but we still exist, so try and hold in there man, that woman isn't good enough if she's going accuse you of that shit when she did that shit way back when

  • Photo of xx_pin_xx xx_pin_xx
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    Posted 2 years ago by xx_pin_xx

    ok this is a fact : not enought human beings are decent these days. everyone is utterly selfish and they think of themselves only...they are the only one that matter...and yet there are some ppl that have a good heart and they forgive people. but you know wat happens to those ppl? they get backstabed all the time and they get accused of doing wrong where really they are the ones doing some good to this fucked up world. and this is exactly wat happen to u. if she doesnt appreciate wat u did for her, i do.

  • Photo of RebelDrummerGirl RebelDrummerGirl
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    Posted 2 years ago by RebelDrummerGirl

    I don't think you did anything wrong. Apparently, she's either been taken for a ride too many times; has trust issues; or is the type of person that does things for people for a reason, but that's just my take on it. By the way, that's sooooo sweet! Wished you lived near by! :)

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    Posted 2 years ago by Jordan93

    Wow. That's pretty harsh. You did absolutely nothing wrong.