A one time freind of mine recently took the cowards way out and blew his brains out. People who knew him gathered and someone asked how he should be remembered, I said "A coward like that should not be remembered but instead should be forgotten"
While nothing can take away the hurt and loss we all feel for the passing of Paul. I truelly beleive he would have wanted us all to Celabrate his life and his acomplishments, more than mourn his passing.